All it's cut out to be

Do u give advice? Or are u 1 who likes to be given advice, anywho if u r giving advice u gotta b real careful with the delivery, cuz at that very moment u bcome n architect helping sme1 rebuild their mind, at that point u can mess re person up or set em up good. The problem is sme ppl should not give advice(go find what ur good at),I've seen ppl take advice from all sorts n in different manners n some of em is bad. On the reals u never ever ever ever  put a person down when giving advice, u they've done something wrong theirs another way of telling em they've messed up. Whenever I advice anybody I make em knw this what i feel n the final decision is on them always has n always will b. They should pick what they feel best n whatever happensa back u up. That's what I feels beat cuz u advising the dude n not making the decision 4 him n he ain't gonna have to always rely on u. Y do most relationships fail, simple cuz the couples use a middle man instead of sorting it out themselves, that would be easier n if u iz in a relationship doesn't it make more sense to complain bout ur partner to ur partner than to some1 else. Only when u try at first n no result can u bring in some1, giving good advice shouldn't b forced; u shouldn't do it cuz u wanna knw what's going on or just feel u r in control of ur lyf n can help any1 outta any sitch. N even if u can advice good u gotta do it cuz u wanna help n protect the person, there some ppl in my lyf I can't stand to see frown or hurt it's them I wanna help or ppl that r good but bcuz of sme stuff there going through, they r funding harder than usual to get a grip of things. Advicing or giving advice is deeper than the surface level of what it looks lyk, serious thought should b put in it especially on the part of the advicer