Growing up

How do u know when u grown, no 1 can b completely grown. Every1 has got their flaws but once u got a good number of a couple things that shows u grown n stuff then u good. Stuff lyk sticking to what I said, backing up ur friends, taking Care of u n ur own, knowing when to give advice n doing it properly. Thinking maturely(not that a stupid thoughts every now n then hurts) y do ppl mess things up 4 ppl when they r lyk happy n stuff, y is it then ppl turn to dr. Phils n start advicing, that ain't cool. Knowing when to give a hug n a smile, or how to turn a smile upside down, or leave a person alone to their thoughts. Smtmes no words r needed, ur actions can do d damage or fix the patch. N ppl 4gt bridges can b broken n gaps can reopen(a Sean law original{hey G}), n loved 1 can hate u, wyle enemies can end up as fam. All this is a lot to deal with so growing up makes u able to deal with all this in ways were we take the best choices. D ability to not let ur emotions cloud ur judgement is hard, standing up to ur enemy is hard but standing up to ur friends is harder. That is 1 of the true tests of courage, n that shows grown-up-ness(haha). Every1 grows up, but not every1 is mature.